Consent; Easy as FRIES!
Have you heard of FRIES? Imagine you and a friend, let’s call her Skylar, are headed to a burger joint. Skylar orders a large fry and...
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Royce Schiro
- Dec 15, 2022
- 3 min
Winter Holidays & the Remnants of Domestic Violence
The way you view a holiday will directly affect how you feel about it. This article will cover some ways to help make the holidays...
Kimberly Valenta
- Sep 21, 2022
- 5 min
Rising Above: Hispanic & Latin Survivors of Domestic Violence
Hispanic and Latin survivors come have roots in different countries with similar values. Theirs is a story that isn't always told,...
Royce Schiro
- Aug 16, 2022
- 4 min
The Unspoken Shadow: Mental Effects of Domestic Violence
Some effects of domestic violence are apparent, but more often than not, the invisible struggles linger the longest. These invisible...
Mandy Chitwood
- Jul 19, 2022
- 5 min
Outside Looking In: A Deeper Look Into the BIPOC Community
What does BIPOC mean? BIPOC is an umbrella term that stands for Black, Indigenous, & People Of Color. It is pronounced “bye-pock”. The...
Kimberly Valenta
- Jun 13, 2022
- 3 min
Strong Communities : Gun Violence Prevention
June is National Gun Violence Prevention month. During a time where our nation is being showered with news of gun related violence, and...
John Pfleiderer
- May 13, 2022
- 4 min
Reflections of Resilience
A Luncheon to recognize Advocates for Individuals and Families October 19, 2022 12 to 1:30 pm Glen Erin Golf Club, 1417 W. Airport Road,...
Jane Kelhod
- May 12, 2022
- 3 min
Male Survivors of Domestic Violence: They Do Exist!
By: Stephanie Hormig MSE “You can’t be a victim!” For many years DEFY has worked with male survivors of Domestic Violence (DV) and Sexual...
John Pfleiderer
- Apr 27, 2022
- 2 min
Next Step Transitional Living Project
An initiative to help two generations by providing a range of services for homeless single parents with young children. The current...
John Pfleiderer
- Mar 22, 2022
- 2 min
A Response to Homelessness in Rock County
“History should judge us by the differences we choose to make in the lives of especially vulnerable children.” Anonymous There is no...
Jane Kelhod
- Mar 8, 2022
- 4 min
Jealousy: Lessons To Learn
By: Erin Rybski What is jealousy? Jealousy is a defensive reaction to a perceived threat in a valued relationship. It arises from a...
Jane Kelhod
- Feb 8, 2022
- 3 min
Teen Dating Violence
When Innocent Relationships Turn Sour February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. Dating violence is an unfortunate reality that...
Jane Kelhod
- Jan 10, 2022
- 2 min
Human Trafficking: It is happening here!
January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month. So, we wanted to bring some education and awareness on the topic. Trafficking is an issue...
Cara Rheinschmidt
- Dec 1, 2021
- 3 min
Home for the Holidays
Written by Erin Horin, Cara Rhienschmidt and Betsy Whalen Feeling Lonely during the Holidays? We’ve got you covered! Know that you are...
Cara Rheinschmidt
- Oct 18, 2021
- 3 min
What It Means to Be a Domestic Violence Ally
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. While we consistently raise awareness throughout the year, we want to focus on what we as a...
Kimberly Valenta
- Sep 14, 2021
- 4 min
To Feel Something
Domestic Violence, Intimate Partner Violence & Suicide By: Kimberly Valenta September is Suicide Awareness Month. It is recognized...
Jane Kelhod
- Aug 16, 2021
- 4 min
Trauma Through a Child's Eyes
Secondary Trauma l Effects of Witnessing Domestic Violence By: Mandy Chitwood Have you or someone you know ever witnessed an act of...
Jane Kelhod
- Jun 14, 2021
- 4 min
I See You! Do You See Me?
In college I met a girl named Robin. From a young age people called her “Birdy”. She hated being called Birdy. It made her feel...
Mandy Chitwood
- May 26, 2021
- 6 min
YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Break the stigma | Mental health awareness month 2021 Just like good physical health, good mental health is important at every stage of...
Kimberly Lizan Lorenz
- Apr 11, 2021
- 8 min
See How to Heal from Sexual Assault
Have you ever been affected by sexual assault or know someone who has? In many cases, it can be traumatizing and demeaning to those who...
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